her the term submit had been perverted into be abused. Still, I had to offer her spiritual resources. The question was how. Like a surgeon at a state-of-the-art hospital who employs the best technology can offer, a Christian counselor has powerful resources—spiritual resources—to draw on, but they are not automatically helpful. They can even be counterproductive. Over the years, I’ve learned that a counselor must employ spiritual resources with skill, sensitivity, and wisdom. Here is what I have